Homosexuality....some chose it others have no choice

A few days ago a co-worker and I were having a discussions about homosexuality. Now I personally have no life experience of being gay but I do however have my opinions on it. My co-worker and I both know individuals who we either know or think are gay, but the reasons behind it we did not agreed upon.

She believed that gay people had a choice on whether or not they are gay. I listened to her argument but frankly I didn't think it was completely right. I listened to how she told me they could be cured through prayer, that they had to want not to be gay and go to god to stop that life style. It was in her opinion that it was a spirit causing them to be gay, that it was a temptation like everything else and they had to refuse it.

I however do not think that homosexuality is choice for all people. I think for some like people that up and decide one day, "oh I'm gay" and blame it on a negative relationship that yes that is a choice. However, how can you deny that some people are born that way when there are people that commit suicide because others tell them that the feelings they have and the people they love are not right.

If being homosexual is such a choice why wouldn't someone just choose to be heterosexual. Who would chose to be viewed with prejudice, to endure unnecessary pain, or have limited rights in the eye of the law, no person would.

In my opinion it shouldn't matter who a person loves as long as they love. Who are we as people to tell someone who is OK or not OK to love. The answer is we are no one. The choice to be gay for some is a choice and for others its just as much a choice to be heterosexual.. One day you just know who your attracted to. No one should be faulted for that.

Love is love and no one should be judged for it.

Sheree` housewife of atlanta

So last night was the premiere of Housewives of Atlanta season 2. I must admit that Sheree` didn't seem too bad this season, I mean I still think Nene is the best but Sheree` has got some sass with her. However, I wasn't to happy about her comment about " calling up Pookie and them". That was just so inappropriate. People already look at black people in say they are ghetto so please don't add to the negativity. The party planner was wrong and you had every reason to dig into his behind. But your statement simply should have ended with " I had to let the cleveland girl out ". And frankly why do you need to call Pookie and them? He was one man hand yours yourself.

But honestly Sheree` was heated the bear claw veins coming out of her neck proved it. I knew she had it in her .

That was just my random thought more to come...

the untold truth....C.Mone`...

so i dont no if i could live with electricity

So here I sit in complete and utter silence, bored out of my freaking mined with only my nearly dead cellphone and laptop in front of me. A storm has just come by it was all of three minutes but it knocked out my power and ive been sitting here for um... lets see an hour!

I just don't understand how people can do this live without electricity. Now I didn't have cable for almost the last 3years and I have recently been forced to buy my own phone that doesn't have a camera because guess what... I'm paying my own bills.. and all my friends tell me I'm stuck in the old ages and its 2009 get with the program. However, I've always had some time of technology I may not have a camera phone but I have a phone, didn't have cable but I had a tv.

So my question is I no when my phone and laptop die im going to be going insane, so how exactly do people go on a day to day basis without some form of electricity?

The answer is they don't! At some point they have to see or use something with technology, so if they say they don't their lying. Even the Amish come to town and cook food in that nice rotisery oven. I dont even have a stove right now because ..guess what its electric.

So should we be less technology dependent. Yes! But hey I'm an evolved creature and with it came a phone, lights, tv, computer, stove, car, and everything else I like. Shame on who ever says that I don't need these things.

the untold truth...C.Mone`

Maybe I dont really want you either

This is a short and sweet one well at least im trying to make it that way before I go to sleep. People always think that girls are unaware of the games guys play with them. However, I don't think thats always true. Maybe we like the attention and the flirting and put up with your lies and dumb games for the simple fact that we can. We can flirt and hang out but that doesn't mean we're in love with you. We may like your company from time to time to temporarily fill a void, until we find someone we know in our spirit we're really meant to be with. But my advice to guys who think they have a girl in the palm of their hand. Who may not really want to be with a girl long time or short time for that matter but say whats necessary to get into her head. She just may NOT want you either!!!!!





the untold truth...C.Mone`....

If you love it let it go!!!!

So perhaps you've heard the saying, " If you love something let it go. If it comes back thats how you know.". Well most people use that to say thats how you know its meant to be. However, thats not always true sometimes you let something go thinking you can't be without it and you pray and hope it comes back. But while its gone you realize that you don't need and in all actuality you really don't want it. So really sometimes when you let something go, let it stay gone.

I perfer the thought that everything has its own season. In which case, if your past your season I think its necessary for me to just let you go. And all I can say to you then is
¡Adiós! Fue agradable le conociendo pero es tiempo para usted ir.: Goodbye! It was nice knowing you but it's time for you to go.

the untold truth...C.Mone....

Flaws and All

Earlier today I was watching true life the first episode was " I hate my large breast", the second was " I hate my small breast", and the last was " I'm uncomfortable in my new body". I sat there and listened to how disappointed these people were with their bodies whether large or small and it saddened me. But what it did show was that you need to love yourself, FLAWS and ALL!!!! No matter what you do in life your always going to have things within yourself that your unhappy with but changing those physical things may not always be the way to fix yourself the only way to really fix it is to change the way you personally view yourself. No ones perfect and if you keep trying to change your physical appearance without first becoming happy with the person you are, you will eventually look in the mirror and still see flaws because hacking away at your body doesn't fix your emotion deformities. In fact in fixing the way you view yourself you may just see that the things your say as problems really weren't, but your emotional defects where appearing to you in a physical form.

I guess what I'm trying to say is stop focusing on the physical... you were born so love yourself and if you still have issues then fix them. But you can but a girl in a ball gown and make her look like a princess, but if she thinks she looks worst then the next girl no amount of make-up can make her beautiful...

the untold truth....C.Mone

STUCK

I've reached a point in my life where I believe that I am what can be described in no other words than STUCK!!! When i graduated from high school I had a plan, a college to attend, a career I wanted to achieve, and a life I've so desperately wanted to live. I wanted to make something of myself. But as I sit here two years later I feel so lost. All the things I never thought would happen have some how unfolded in my life like a script written by an opponent who only wishes to see me fail. But I haven't failed and  I don't intend to. I feel my self floating above water at times sinking below but not enough to drown. Sometimes it feels like my lungs are filling with water and I can't breathe, speak, or move. Because I'm STUCK!!! I loved college but had to take time off and I've been working my ass off to pay what I owe so I can go back, but it feels as tho as far and as much as I get done something comes up and it just isn't enough. I'm so far away from all my friends and it seems as tho I try so hard but I have no one , no one but myself. The world is a crushing place when all you have is yourself to depend on. When you are the only one there to console you when things go wrong. I know things will get better, there would be tough times and easier times, but I wish there was a time limit on pain, stress, and suffering because then I'd know when the sun would truly smile again. But until things get better I suppose I'm much like a caterpillar in its hard callous cocoon, trapped until the time comes for me to change into the beautiful butterfly I was meant to be... Until then I'm just STUCK!!!

The untold truth...C.Mone`